This may get a lot of backlash but think about it. If you were to ask any single mother who the #1 person in her life is, she would, without a doubt, say her child/children. And you would never take that #1 spot. I am looking for my #1, not my #2.
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Yeah, plus having a child is considered ‘settling down’ in life, putting aside hobbies, or that dream job. Some people just aren’t ready for having a kid yet
Agreed. I never dated fathers
Well I certainly agree with not wanting to date someone with kids because that’s a big responsibly and definitely a different dynamic. Your reasoning of wanting to be number 1 is kind of comical. Especially because even if she is single that’s not nessesarly going to be true. Maybe shes very close with her mom or dad or sister or brother or best friend. So you still could be shit outta luck lol. But like others have said you have the right to not date someone for any reason you like. Its your choice.
And women not wanting to date short dudes is okay too. They’re just preferences. Don’t be a dick about them and move on.