While I don’t doubt there are plenty of examples of genuinely, obtuse men out there… When I read some of these anecdotes of guys not realizing they are being flirted with, there’s always this underlying assumption that ‘if the guy only pick up on it, then we would hook up’.
Maybe he wasn’t interested and was hoping you’d take the hint to stop trying to flirt with him?
I wasn’t ‘blind’ when I drove past the big, yellow, glowing, arrow sign telling me to turn into a McDonald’s… I saw it. I just didn’t want McDonald’s.
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